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No.
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When an argument starts, what’s your instinct?
Walk away and cool off
Try to keep things calm and agreeable
Say exactly what I’m feeling—loudly if needed
Analyze the situation before responding
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How do you typically feel during conflict?
Anxious and overwhelmed
Uncomfortable but focused on peace
Frustrated or angry
Detached or in control
No.
3
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What do you usually do after a fight?
Pretend it didn’t happen
Apologize or check on my partner
Stay fired up and replay the whole thing in my head
Reflect and try to learn from it
No.
4
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How do you express your feelings in a disagreement?
I struggle to find the words
I try to keep things soft and balanced
I’m direct and emotional
I explain logically and stay calm
No.
5
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Which quote feels most like your approach?
Silence avoids drama
Love means meeting in the middle
Say it like you mean it
Cool heads solve problems
